We all wish for our children to take ownership of their choices, we want to see them grow, and we want to be able to help and support them when they need it.

At TBG, children are given small responsibilities when they are in the dojang/dojo (school), whether it be helping to put up the equipment that was used in class, or simply putting their water bottle in a cubby. Establishing these routines in a new space gives them a solid foundation for success, enabling them to apply the newly learned skills outside of the school.

They will learn how they can contribute to the "common good" by helping to maintain an orderly school. In the beginning, they will look to the other students for foe examples of responsible behavior. Eventually becoming a role model themselves, showing responsibility by looking out for friends and neighbors, volunteering, and being dependable.

Kids need opportunities to contribute positively! By supporting their “response-ability,” we empower them to make a positive impact on the world around them¹.

Our goal when teaching is to give clear, simple instructions, and break tasks down into manageable steps.   This clarity helps children understand what’s expected of them³.

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The teenage years can often be difficult to navigate because there are so many new responsibilities and expectations. At TBG, we encourage teens to take responsibility for their learning and self improvement. We help teens manage their responsibilities and show them the value of these responsibilities in the first place.

As teachers, we offer guidance in directing their improvements. This shared responsibility is helpful for teens to see at a young age and will set them on a better path in life. We clearly communicate what is expected of a student and encourage open dialogue about these expectations. This communication is crucial for understanding and accepting responsibilities.

We help build the foundation which will enable them to take responsibility for their own actions. We celebrate their successes and, when mistakes occur, help them through the process of acknowledging the error, learning from it, repairing any damage, ad preventing it from occurring in the future.

It is important for them to build these skills in a safe and supportive environment. Our goal is to lead by example. Our hopes are to build up our students so they become role models and successful adults.

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In this day and age, we hear a lot about work-life balance. Often times, this comes with no suggestions for how to manage the conflicting responsibilities. This can be damaging to your self-worth, as some people we feel as if they have failed if they cannot figure this out on their own. They have not failed. They simply are overwhelmed by the myriad of responsibilities and think that they have to be superhuman in order to accomplish everything.

At TBG Martial Arts, we encourage adults to reflect on their actions, feelings, and decisions. Often times, people are so caught up in the details that they are unable to see the positive contributions that their behavior has. This self-reflection leads to a heightened level of self-awareness. Self-awareness leads to responsible behavior.

We can help guide adults in setting realistic goals by break down larger objectives into smaller, manageable steps. We celebrate progress and achievements. We provide a space and curriculum which is clearly defined where responsibilities are minimal. This can be especially helpful for parents. We encourage families to join and participate together. While on the mat, you can be assured that your children are only an arms reach away and that you are working together towards the same goal and that you have similar responsibilities. You also get to be a role model for your children, which is something that both of you can be proud of.

The power to say, "No." People often feel that they have to say yes to something. That is not always the case. We will help you to enhance your communication skills by teaching active listening, assertiveness, and conflict resolution. We encourage adults to express their needs and set clear boundaries, and help them understand how to verbalize those feelings.

Effective communication is crucial for responsibility.

And, If you must work while you're here, we have free wi-fi.

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